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First of all, take it easy. Calm down. There's nothing better than stress & anxiety for killing the mood. Secondly, hey, I've been there too. This is probably nothing. Couples go through sexual phases & sometimes get a little out of sync, which is probably all it is. Stressing about it only makes it worse. *{There ARE the rare cases of women who just plain don't like sex because of their own issues & pretend to like it until they get married, then they quit having sex altogether. My friend's therapist told him that his wife, unfortunately, was one of these women. He's now happily remarried. I seriously doubt that this is the problem, but if you begin to suspect that it is, I'd suggest couples therapy to be sure.}* If you need to spark your sex life, here's what I'd do (have done): Go out to dinner & have a nice romantic time. Have some drinks so that you can both relax & talk. Then broach up the subject with her. Ask her to tell you honestly what turns her on, & if there's something that you could be doing or doing differently that would get her really hot & bothered. I'm sure she masturbates, ask her to tell you how she likes it done. You should both talk about your sexual fantasies & what turns you on. If she loves you, she'll be willing to work on this & try new things to enhance your sex life which will ultimately enhance your relationship. You could try watching an erotic movie together or go to an adult store & buy a toy for the bedroom. Have her buy some sexy lingerie & wear it to bed one night. There's also something to be said for letting sexual tension build. You could have a week where sex is off limits til, say, Friday but every night you could both engage in something arousing like a massage or a good make-out session & let the tension build through the week until you finally have sex on Friday.These are just some things to try, though, ultimately its up to the both of you to work on it & keep it good. I hope this helps!