This is more of an opinion than a question :)?

This is more of an opinion than a question but hey! you get points for sharing your opinion :) ok so this saturday my (evil) cousin is haveing her 14 b-day party. But the only reason her parents are giving her the b-day party is because next years she's having her quinceanera (me too) and they are looking for padrinos! and what ticks me off is that they asked my mom/grandma to be the madrina for the church! and like i said my quince is next year also! my grandma is going to most likely say no because she has to think of my quince (we already have almost everything but the hall which we will get next week). anyhow dont you think thats stupid and inconsiderate? just saying